You may know this as the law of attraction,
ordering or as 'The Secret'.
The law of attraction is simple in theory, harder
In theory; You will get what you want. But only if
you truly feel you deserve it.
Without going into the Quantum Physics or the
Universal Laws in any great detail; this page is intended for those with
an awareness of the Spiritual Law of Attraction and are struggling to
integrate it into their lives.
We all know what we want, but we get frustrated
and angry when things do not go how we want them to.
We have to ensure we are doing two things.
- We have to set the vision free, not clinging to
it as a hope.
- We have to ensure that we have no inner
blockages which are preventing manifestation.
Oh!... and a third thing... Trust!
Clearing Inner Blockages
It is easy to 'want' and know we want something.
But when we are not getting it and we are sure we have set it free. Then
the reason you are not getting what you want is because of an inner
Many of these will be ingrained age-old blockages.
If you want abundance (in any form), and it is not
coming your way, your blockage is to do with your inner expectation of
If you can learn to recognise situations which are
repeating themselves on your path, you can use these to see what you are
You get what you feel...
If you want more money, but don't feel inside that you deserve it. You
won't get it.
If you don't believe that the Law of Attraction is working for you - it
Affirming "I deserve" may help; however it then makes you totally
focused on receiving 'it' and doesn't set it free. Affirm or state once,
whilst totally feeling the receiving and deserving. Once only and set it
free with complete trust.
Setting the 'want list' free.
Letting go of what you want can be a truly
difficult process. If we ask for something and are sat there waiting for
it to manifest. We are not allowing the 'mind energy' to flow out of our
local space into the universe. If it does not flow out into the universe
it can not manifest.
When you can not set your wants free, you are
attached to them. You don't need to give up or let go of the 'want', you
just have to set it free.
When we struggle to set something free, we are not
trusting it will come back to us. We are not at peace with ourselves and
we are not fully at peace in our lives.
In order to trust, it is important to find peace
You can not sit there and wait. Doing this, only
holds onto your 'want' and delays you receiving. You may think getting
what you want is easy. You've asked for it, and are sitting back in your
chair waiting for the knock on the door.
That knock on the door will not come whilst you
are consciously waiting for it. You have to set it free. You've asked.. so
now get on with your life, whilst your energy goes to work for you.
Ask for it, picture it and then stop checking up
on it every half an hour. Checking up on it pulls it back to you, and
doesn't let it get 'out there'.
So near so far
If you have ever found that you are on the brink
of getting what you want, and at the last minute you get 'pipped' at the
post. It can be a truly frustrating experience. You are manifesting the
opportunity, but at the last minute you feel undeserving thus pushing away
what you want.
It can come as a simple "I can't believe this is
really happening" moment, which literally says 'Ok, lets take this away'.
It brings disappointment and we are left wondering WHY we missed our
Remember, it's coming from within you. It's not
that the 'universe' doesn't feel you are deserving. It's you. Last minute
nerves, jitters or lack of trust in who you are/what you want.
The other problem is; if this is a recurring theme
in your life. That you are so focused on getting to that 'one point', that
the chase becomes the game for you. As in; you have focused this part of
your journey on chasing the dream, It is a good idea to start viewing
yourself as 'in' the situation. As in, beyond the chase, as in truly
feeling being where you want to be, having what you truly want. Not just
the point of 'getting it', but beyond that. Then relax. Then let it go.
Then go enjoy what you have in life today.
Getting just enough
If you find you are only ever getting just enough,
it is within you that the limitations are being formed. You are feeling
you deserve as much you are actually receive.
Look at the situation and ask yourself, in what
areas are you limiting your intake, why are you preventing more than 'just
enough'. Where is your focus?
If you focus is on getting just enough, that is
all you will get. If your focus is on getting MORE than enough, that is
what you will get. If you can free yourself up and allow yourself to have
everything without limitation - That is what you will get.
Stop putting things on hold.
When we are totally focused on ONE particular
outcome, we are putting various other areas of our life on hold.
We have to live, we have to experience and when we
are totally focused, our tunnel vision prevents us from seeing everything
else in our life; thus we could be missing vital opportunities.
Things manifest often in a way that we can't
imagine. We know what we want and know how we want it to come to us - So
we are totally focused on watching things come to us in the way WE have
Remember; you don't need to worry about the
details. Let the details work themselves out and be in your reality. Work
with what you have, and what you have got. Allow things to come to you;
allow yourself to live your life and enjoy each moment.
It is then that you can start seeing and acting
upon co-incidences. They will occur the more open and flowing your
When things matter too much
When we allow something to matter so much that it
takes over our every thought. We are allowing an aspect of 'fear' to
control us. It is important to work through that aspect of fear. Prepare
or know what you would do in the worst case situation; what it would mean
to you and why you fear it. It is often only when we allow ourselves to
totally look at our fear aspect that we can see what it is that is
preventing us from achieving the things we truly want.