Understanding > Doubt
"The strength of your doubts is a
reflection of the strength of your potential." Eric Francis
How true, when we doubt something,
the doubt is the opposite of what we want.. hence a reflection. What do
you think you can't do... see the reflection, and know what it means.
To have a doubt means you are considering something...
We only have doubts over things we do/are intending to do/want.
To doubt means you don't believe in yourself or in your capabilities.
"For a time, you'll be figuring
out what you hold dear and true based largely on the discovery of what
you simply cannot abide." Eric Francis
When you doubt yourself, you
hold back real feeling.
When you doubt yourself, you are afraid to truly feel.
Feeling will make you real again.
We don't have to put up with things. What we do need to do is figure out
exactly how we feel.
Only when you know what you feel can
you be honest about things, then take the correct course of action...
When you remove the negative influences in your life, the positive aspects
Justifying your actions
When you spend time convincing
someone else to justify your actions, you are in fact clarifying and
convincing yourself... being clear, and having someone understand you
helps you to justify your choices.
The process of convincing others
usually means that you are not fully convinced yourself.
There is a distinct difference
between explaining things to someone, and trying to convince someone of
When you need outside validation, it is because you are doubting yourself
in some way.
We seek validation, when we ask
others what THEY would do. By asking others what they would do, we then
remove our responsibility to ourselves.
Never ask if someone thinks you are
doing the right thing. They are not YOU.
Outside opinion is useful
Discussing things with other people
helps to clarify things in your own mind. It is however, you who should
make the ultimate decision.
Other people have wisdom which you
can draw on, and the sharing of information is VERY important.
Yet be sure, that it is your final
decision, that you do things because YOU feel it's right.
Do as you feel is right,
and if it feels wrong don't do it!.
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